So we all tend to super focus in on our own mistakes. I
mean, who hasn’t had a perfectly fine day ruined by remembering something
awkward we did in seventh grade? (Or a week ago…) We’re all so worried about
messing up and looking like idiots that we dwell on our mishaps for years!
But then whenever someone else messes up even a little bit
we blame them and make fun of them and do other horrible things. And it’s a
little hypocritical, given how hard we are on ourselves. And it just
perpetuates the cycle, because then they’re going to be harsh on themselves and
take it out on someone else. And so the stress rolls on.
We know that nobody is perfect, and yet we expect others to
be so anyways. When we should be rejoicing in the fact that we aren’t the only
ones that make mistakes we ridicule them. Everyone’s imperfect! Everyone screws
up! We don’t need to be so harsh about it, just learn and move on and make sure
it doesn’t happen again! We’re so focused on perfection all the time, need to
change this and create less stress in the world, instead of more. Because
stress sucks. And no one likes it.
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