I think that probably the most important realization that I
have had in my life is the fact that I am actually an asshole. Everyone goes
through life thinking that they’re ok and aren’t actively hurting anyone; most
people don’t sit there and contemplate how to ruin someone’s day. But as you
carry on you realize all of these subconscious opinions or habits that you
have, and while you did not form them with the intention of being hurtful, they
still can cause pain in others. This can be sexism, racism, or anything really.
At some point everyone has to realize that this applies to
them, there is no way to escape this. Literally everyone in the world has
inherent biases, and no one is exempt. Coming to this realization is an
important point in your development, because then you can commit to making
yourself better. That does not mean that it is going to happen instantly, but
even once you begin to set down that path you are already a better, more
self-aware, person.
Everyone is going down this path together, so do not feel
discouraged, you are not the only one struggling through. The important thing
is to learn and grow together, because the truth is that this journey never
actually ends, people do not just hit a point where they are perfect, it is a
constant struggle to be more aware and more conscious of your thoughts and
actions. And that is perfectly ok.
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